Pictures/Photos
If you are going to use pictures/photos, then have them be one of three things:
• Professional looking, such as you in a suit or tuxedo
• Have you doing something impressive like playing a sport, posing for photo at someplace unique like the Grand Canyon, or helping out at a volunteer organization
• Be hysterical with a funny caption. For example, take a picture with a clown and have a caption which says, “Here I am with the last ‘Bozo’ you dated!” Again, make your caption funny for the woman reading it, not just for your own humor
ONE WARNING ABOUT PICTURES:
Whatever you do, do not show pictures with kids. If you have kids, then you must be honest and say that you have kids. However, never place a picture with kids as it puts THE KIDS’ safety in jeopardy. Remember, it’s not just nice and beautiful women who can access your profile.
Sick people can access your profile, so NEVER put kids in harm’s way inadvertently even if you love your kids more than life itself.
A SECOND WARNING ABOUT PICTURES:
Be honest! If you were a former bodybuilder and now look like you have never seen the inside of a gym, do NOT post your former bodybuilder physique. It is dishonest and will create friction with any woman you meet right away. This forces you to do a few things:
• Be authentic. All pictures should be within the last 24 months and NO editing the photos using Photoshop!
• If you are 50 pounds overweight and recently lost your hair, get a trusted female friend
who knows about clothing and hair styling to make you look good. Follow her suggestions and then have someone take a recent photo of you
• Actually work on making improvements in your physique. Remember that she could be the Miss Olympia, and she will still want to improve her physique! So do the same thing. If weight is a concern, make a comment and say something like “After my first 5 pound improvement” or even make a funny comment in the caption
• The same applies if you are super skinny. Actually take the steps toward improving your physique! This earns respect AND makes for conversations which are authentic. Most of the muscular women who go online CRAVE men who are authentic, as way too many guys put on a “fake persona” when around muscular women
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