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Between 2007 and 2008, just one of the athletic-oriented dating websites had over 150 different female bodybuilders and figure competitors as subscribers.  Yes, it’s true!  This does not even account for the other fitness-oriented dating websites, let alone the standard dating websites.

Since some of the most beautiful, athletic women in the world had to go online in order to meet men, what should that tell you?  Here are some truths:

•    Muscular women, who get "hit on" all the time by guys through their personal websites and MySpace pages, decided to go online to meet quality men.  This means that the guys approaching them through their websites or MySpace/Facebook pages did not appeal to these women in any meaningful way
•    These women can meet muscular men anytime at bodybuilding shows.  Chances are that their experiences with the bodybuilding guys are less than stellar!
•    These women can meet muscular guys through their friends who also compete.  Odds are that these guys are not up to par as well
•    These women have guys calling or e-mailing them, asking them to do “sessions,” arm wrestle, or any number of weird requests.  These requests produce ZERO attraction, despite the fact that the guy may be good looking and have lots of cash

So why do some of these women have to venture online?

That’s a good question, and when you have the answers you can use them to your benefit... and the benefit of a beautiful woman as well!

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What Do Muscular Women Seek When They Go Online

After talking with several muscular women who have gone to online dating sites, there seems to be some common ground.  While each woman is going online for her own specific reasons (just like you are going online for your own reasons and not those of your friends), here are some common themes:

•    She wants to meet a guy who is “fetish-free.” 

So many guys don’t know what to do when around a beautiful muscular woman.  Either they freeze up because her face is incredible, they freeze up because they get intimidated by her muscles, or they think, “Wow!  I can finally get some muscular hottie to choke me out with her leg-scissor move.”  All of these are ATTRACTION KILLERS to a beautiful muscular woman. 

Would you want some woman to ask you out so that you could put her in leg scissors and have her submit?  If you are any sort of honorable man you would run away and find a woman who is more mentally balanced.  It goes the same for muscular women.

•    She wants a guy who is funny. 

Since so many guys freeze up around muscular women, these women are craving a guy who is funny, cool, and in control of the situation.  In other words:  he is charismatic and her muscles don’t intimidate him in the least.

•    She wants to be appreciated for what it takes to develop and keep her muscles, but not appreciated ONLY for her muscles. 

There is a huge difference here.  She wants a guy who respects the dedication it takes, her quest for health, and the ability to not be swayed by the temptations of TV commercials for all sorts of unhealthy foods.  Remember that she trains because she is an athlete, not to become the object of your fetish!

•    She wants to be appreciated for MORE than her muscles. 

Yes, underneath those muscles there is an actual WOMAN!  Remember this!

•    She wants variety and a fun escape. 

Following a regimen of 6 meals a day, preparing your food, taking supplements, multiple workouts per week of weight training and cardio (not to mention any full-time job and parenting duties she has) can be difficult due to the tedious nature of it.  She wants to have fun while feeling safe, a chance to develop other parts of her character, and a chance to explore and discover new things while having a good time.

•    She wants fun “adult times” – just in a way where she feels comfortable doing so.

Muscular women are usually much more in tune with their bodies, and they want to find a way to fulfill her desires while having “dichotomy.”  This means she can feel naughty and nice, safe yet she can willingly surrender, be playful but still be perceived as having class, respected for her traits yet still the object of desire, etc.  You get the point.  In order for her to feel those great feelings she needs a MAN who can provide all of those for her while still maintaining her security (physical and emotional). 

•    She wants a man who can lead her on fun adventures and help her discover new things about herself that she had no idea even existed.

Now that you have a better understanding of the ideal scenario, how do you convey all of this in a standard online dating profile? 

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What You Need To Know About Yourself For A Great Profile

First of all take stock of yourself.  If you are having any significant emotional problems, major financial problems (where you can’t take care of yourself), or any current habits of drugs or heavy alcohol problems then do everyone a favor:  Do NOT go online to meet women.  Get your situation straightened out, otherwise you risk hurting the women and you won’t be doing yourself any favors. 

Assuming that you at least can provide for yourself, are mentally balanced, and have no drug/alcohol problems then it is time to list out some of the cool things about yourself.  Here are some of the things you should write down on a sheet of paper:

•    Fun personal accomplishments
•    Cool things about your job or your business
•    Any recent athletic accomplishment – yes, reaching a 200 pound bench press is an accomplishment if you have trained hard and earned it!
•    What traits do others like about you (for example:  your voice, your passion for volunteer work, your ability to speak in public, etc.)
•    What is your living situation (at home with Mom & Dad, your kids, with a roommate, apartment, your own house/condo)
•    What do you find funny (TV shows, comedians, weird world news, etc.)
•    How much marketing/sales skill you have
•    Pictures of you doing interesting things (at the Super Bowl, rock climbing, on vacation, public speaking, playing a sport, etc.)
•    Pictures of you doing something funny or a picture with something that can have a hysterical caption (for example:  you with a politician can have a caption like, “Here I am with (politician’s name)… before he raised my taxes again!”)

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With What Can She Identify

The next thing you should do is consider a situation with which every muscular woman can identify.  Here are some ideas:
•    Infomercials
•    At the smoothie/health food store
•    A bodybuilding show
•    Everyday occurrences (waiting in line at the grocery store, at the airport, taking a train/bus, being put on hold when calling technical support, etc.)
•    Basic TV Show plots (30-minute sitcom, cartoon, celebrity award show, “chick flick” type of show, talk show, etc.)
•    Sporting events
•    Life in the gym
•    Etc.

 
How To Use All Of This Information And Create A Profile Which Attracts Muscular Women

First of all, learn what works.  In the direct marketing/direct response marketing industry the standard tool is called “copy writing.”  Many times this takes the form of a sales letter.  Your online dating profile should be a sales letter which makes you marketable to muscular women who do not know you!

A good sales letter has many key components:
•    Who you are
•    Headline
•    Sub-headline
•    Benefits to the reader – in other words, why should a beautiful muscular woman spend any time reading about you when she has so many other choices
•    Written in a way so that she can identify with the situation
•    A guarantee
•    A “Call To Action”

In the online dating profile, you should always focus on making a beautiful woman laugh and be curious to find out more.  As a 100% given rule, she will not read your profile and automatically go to bed with you.  It just won’t happen!!  So don’t write your profile that way!  Instead, focus on making her laugh and be curious enough that she feels COMPELLED to write to you.

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Let’s start with the pieces of a good sales letter:

 
Who You Are/Nickname

Choose a funny nickname.  While your name is fine (e.g. John Doe) try and choose something funny and which stands out from the hundreds of profiles she will see when looking at the other guys.  For example:

•    CheatMeals (virtually all female bodybuilders have at least one favorite “cheat meal”)
•    StealYourProtein (teasing that you will steal her protein powder)
•    PosingOil (or choose a brand name of bodybuilding posing oil)
•    WristWraps (or any other weight training accessory)
•    Ihatecardio (talking about your disdain for cardio exercise)
•    Itsmyturntolift (teasing her about taking too long on a particular piece of exercise equipment)
•    SkinnyFat (teasing Hollywood women who are thin but have high body fat percentages)
•    HateFashionMagCovers (teasing that you can’t stand the girls on fashion magazines who are supposed to be the “pinnacle” of beauty… especially when they have no muscle)

You get the point of this.  Choose a nickname which will spark some curiosity or laughter AND compel a beautiful muscular woman to read more.  Get her curious and lead her to your headline.

 
Headline/Sub-head

Make your headline funny or give her an incentive to read more.  For example:

•    “Hollywood girls are ugly” – this should make you stand out because many women think that men only want Hollywood actresses
•    “Get ready to laugh at things your Mom wouldn’t approve of!”
•    “Healthy eating with the occasional yummy cheat meal!”
•    “Finally!  A Non-Monosyllabic Man Who Appreciates Conversation”
•    “Former Geek Turned Fitness Junkie Seeks Current Fitness Geek!”
•    “If You Are Muscular, Funny, And Love REAL Conversation Then Read Further”
•    “Discover How To Never Go On Boring Dates Again!  Read More For Your 3 Easy Steps…”
•    “I Know How To Find Out Something Fun About You Which Even Your Best Friend Doesn’t Know!”
•    “Healthier For You Than Foods With Partially Hydrogenated Oils And High Fructose Corn Syrup!”
•    “Coffee Shop Date?!?  Not With Me… I Am More Original Than That!!”
•    “I Won’t Tell Your Friends Where We Met!”
•    “Someone Who Appreciates The Woman BEHIND The Muscles”
•    “Let’s Have So Much Fun That You Want To Skip The Treadmill!”
•    “Let’s Laugh So Hard That It Counts As 3000 Crunches!”
•    “Glutamine? Protein Powder?  Nope… I Am Your # 1 Supplement!”
•    “Are You FDA-Approved?!?”

You get the idea.  Always be respectful and never be crass, vicious, or mean.  Have fun using these ideas for a headline of your own.  If you are ever at a loss for a good headline, go to a website which features world news and then check the “odd news” or “weird news” section.  Those sections always have funny headlines which can inspire you to write your own.

Also “test” your headline.  Since it is the first thing a woman sees (along with a thumbnail image of any photo you post), make sure that it is good.  Test out different headlines and change them every 5-7 days until you get one with a great response rate.  Depending on the dating website, this may also keep you near the top of the “New members” list because you are making changes.

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Benefits To The Reader (The Actual Woman Reading Your Profile)

Ask yourself what benefits the reader will get just by reading your profile.  Go back to the earlier section which discusses what muscular women are seeking when they go online.  For example, let’s use the following two items:
•    She wants a guy who is funny
•    She wants a guy who can offer her an “escape” from the tedious routine of work, training in the gym, and cooking her food


Here is an example of how your first few paragraphs might read:

Hate it when you meet a guy in the gym who looks good, appears to have some intelligence, and doesn’t have a ring on his finger… but replies to your advances with the great line, “Let’s hang out tonight” or “Whatever you want to do, babe”?!?  Wow... how original!  That guy must be a rip-roaring good time...  Not!

Oh, and personally if I were a good-looking muscular woman I wouldn’t want to be called “Babe” either!  I would want something much more unique and customized to me!

Guess what?!?

I will actually offer you something fun, unique, and worth your time.  Yes, I will choose something that is still “safe”… a single guy can never be too safety-conscious around online women   

The trade-off is that you have to hold my hand, tell me I’m not fat, buy me candles, and tell me that I have beautiful eyes.  Oh, and you only can give me one kiss on the cheek goodnight.  LOL!

And IF you’re nice, I might come up with an original nickname for you!


Or try this:


Sorry ladies, but I am not a “renovation” project.  I know that you want a man who is like the BEFORE status on “Extreme Makeover: Home Edition,” but I actually can dress well, carry on a conversation, entertain your friends with amusing (yet appropriate) stories, AND make you laugh in public without being TOO risqué!  What a terrible deal for you… Haha!

Since I am not a renovation project, I guess we will simply have to laugh ourselves silly, make fun of people who believe that a piece of  infomercial exercise equipment is the “magic elixir” to a hot body, and we will have to sneak in a cheat meal just to remind ourselves to be decadent every once in a while.  Oh well, I guess a little “decadence” isn’t too bad a trade-off, is it?!?

This conveys a fun attitude, teases her about “role-reversal” (she has to buy you candles, etc.), and that you are going to be more fun than any guy she can meet in the gym.  Play around with your wording until you get a few introductory sentences that sound like you (when read aloud) and are genuinely entertaining!


The goal is to be one of the few (if not the only) guys to whom she feels that she MUST reply!

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Written In A Way That She Can Identify

Let’s say that you are in the “stereotypical” worst situation.  You are shorter than the average guy and you have an “unsexy” job as a computer programmer.  Remember that what many muscular woman respect is the progress you are making to improve your life and physique.  You don’t have to be there already, just show that you are making progress!

Let’s turn the above situation into an entertaining profile:

Do you have an” inner geek?”  Underneath your muscles and athleticism, do you truly enjoy getting lost in a bookstore, at the museum, or the latest weekend seminar on a subject?  If so, we are going to have fun together.  No, I don’t have the “naughty librarian” thing going on… unless you force me to return my overdue books.  Ha!

I am a former 100% geek who was lost forever in writing computer code more confusing and dull than deciphering all of the ingredients on a bottle of worthless supplements at GNC!  With my recent workouts, however, I am now a “new and improved” 95% geek/5% jock :-)

While I am not the tallest guy in the world, I am finally getting approached by pretty women.  Too bad they have more “carats” on their fingers than there are carrots in the produce section at the supermarket.  That’s why I am on this site!  I don’t mind if you have “tan lines”…just so long as they are not on your left hand ring finger.  LOL!


This shows a couple of things:
•    You talk about wanting something more than her muscles or athleticism
•    That you want her to have a “geeky” or “brainy” side.  In other words, you only want women who are intelligent, especially if they feel as if they have to hide it
•    You are making an adult reference to the “naughty librarian” without being crass or crude
•    You talk about making changes in your physique so that you are not a 100% dork… only 95% dork.  This is endearing to the right woman, and it should make her laugh
•    You talk about getting approached by pretty women, despite not being tall.  This shows that you are considered “worthy” by good-looking women
•    You mention that you are on the site because you want single women, not married ones

Play with this type of writing until you get a profile which is entertaining, showcases your “flaws” in a good way, and makes her want to discover more.

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Guarantee

A typical sales letter usually has some sort of a guarantee like:
•    30-day risk-free trial
•    Money back
•    Double your money back
•    Etc.

What you want to do is remove the risk of her contacting you.  What are the “risks” you ask?  Here are just some of the risks muscular women believe can exist if they decide to contact you:

•    That you may be a guy simply with a “fetish”
•    You may be married
•    You may be crazy and risk hurting them
•    You may have a prison record
•    They may actually end up liking you and you will find someone else attractive
•    They may agree to meet you and find out that you don’t take care of yourself and smell worse than a sewer
•    That you may end up becoming a stalker or worse
•    That you may “hook up” with her and never contact her again

These are all very valid risks because many women have friends who have gone online only to meet guys like this.  What you want to do is reduce the risks in a funny way so that a beautiful muscular woman will have more reasons to contact you. 

Here are some ways to do this:

• 100% Risk-Free Guarantee

So you may be sitting at home or somewhere in public on your laptop wondering if it is possible that you can actually meet someone who likes your aesthetics, likes your personality even more (!), doesn’t smell like leftover protein shakes, and has never seen the inside of a prison!  You know what???… I want the same thing! 

And I promise to be single so that you won’t have to deal with a “meddling wife”, I promise to maintain your physical and emotional security, AND I won’t ask you if you have a sister or roommate if we end up having less "connection" than college football rivals! 

In fact, I stand behind my promise to the point that I will even splurge and take you to GNC for a protein bar right off the bat when we meet.  If nothing else, you can tell your friends that you got to go “shopping” with me the first time we met!  LOL!

Or you may try something like this:

• The 100% No “Soap Opera” Guarantee

Sorry ladies, but I just will not be able to elicit the “soap opera” attraction triggers when we meet!  Nope, I do not have a prison record, you won’t be able to seduce me away from my wife (because I don’t have one), and you won’t be able to convert me from a stinky, lazy guy into a brooding soap opera actor.  That is because I am not stinky, lazy, or even like “brooding” at all! 

Yep, it’s a terrible deal for you:  you will be forced to laugh genuinely, I actually want to find out more about the muscles ABOVE your neck, and I have enough discipline to be cool should we just not connect on a naughty… err.. playful level 

I know that you truly wanted to tell your friends that you met a “soap opera” type of guy, but I figure that I am still marketable because I bring so little “drama” that I won’t interfere with your workouts or food preparation!  Who knows, I might even know a healthy recipe or two to make chicken and green vegetables more appetizing… but you have to write to me soon before I sell my recipe to the Food Network ;)

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Call To Action

Decide what you want her to do.  Do you want her to e-mail you?  Do you want her to use any built-in instant message system?  Do you want her to reply back with a certain answer to a playful question?

Make it simple, direct, and easy for her to do.  Notice in the last “guarantee” you told her that she had better write to you soon?  That is a call to action.

Basically, you do NOT want to have your profile read something like this:

“I like to hang out with my friends, play basketball, and take my dogs to the beach.  Looking for muscle chicks who are hot and can hang with my friends.”

If you were a beautiful woman would you reply to that?!?  Of course not!  There is no benefit, no humor, no guarantee, and no call to action.

Instead write your call to action in a funny manner which offers some “scarcity.”  Here are some examples:

Be sure to reply back quickly because the muscle magazines have asked me to send them a photo with a beautiful muscular woman… chowing down on a cheat meal the size of Texas!  And they need it next week so you had better reply soon.  LOL!

Or try something like this:

If you have read this far then chances are that we both enjoy laughing, intelligent conversation, and a receiving a healthy degree of respect while doing something fun.  Sadly, many of my female colleagues have told me that a guy with such traits is a rare animal… and evidently it’s “hunting season!”  LOL!  So you had better reply quickly to apply for your “hunting license”!  Supplies are limited.

 
Pictures

If you are going to use pictures/photos, then have them be one of three things:

•    Professional looking, such as you in a suit or tuxedo
•    Have you doing something impressive like playing a sport, posing for photo at someplace unique like the Grand Canyon, or helping out at a volunteer organization
•    Be hysterical with a funny caption.  For example, take a picture with a clown and have a caption which says, “Here I am with the last ‘Bozo’ you dated!”  Again, make your caption funny for the woman reading it, not just for your own humor

ONE WARNING ABOUT PICTURES:

Whatever you do, do not show pictures with kids.  If you have kids, then you must be honest and say that you have kids.  However, never place a picture with kids as it puts THE KIDS’ safety in jeopardy.  Remember, it’s not just nice and beautiful women who can access your profile.  Sick people can access your profile, so NEVER put kids in harm’s way inadvertently even if you love your kids more than life itself.

A SECOND WARNING ABOUT PICTURES:

Be honest!  If you were a former bodybuilder and now look like you have never seen the inside of a gym, do NOT post your former bodybuilder physique.  It is dishonest and will create friction with any woman you meet right away.  This forces you to do a few things:

•    Be authentic.  All pictures should be within the last 12 months and NO editing the photos using Photoshop or other photo-editing software! 
•    If you are 50 pounds overweight and recently lost your hair, get a trusted female friend who knows about clothing and hair styling to make you look good.  Follow her suggestions and then have someone take a recent photo of you
•    Actually work on making improvements in your physique.  Remember that she could be the Miss Olympia, and she will still want to improve her physique!  So do the same thing.  If weight is a concern, make a comment and say something like “After my first 5 pound improvement” or even make a funny comment in the caption
•    The same applies if you are super skinny.  Actually take the steps toward improving your physique!  This earns respect AND makes for conversations which are authentic.  Most of the muscular women who go online CRAVE men who are authentic, as way too many guys put on a “fake persona” when around muscular women
 

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Additional Steps With Online Dating

•    Practice writing out multiple versions of these on a piece of paper or typing them out on your word processing software.  After a while you will come up with your own “voice” and style which meets the underlying needs of muscular women.

•    Go to the dating website of your choice, or sign up for the first two options you see at:  http://www.dateafemalebodybuilder.com/dating_links.html

•    You do not have to post a picture, nor do you have to commit financially to any of these sites.  Test out the sites with a free profile.

•    Consider setting up a new e-mail account (Yahoo, Hotmail, Gmail, etc.) for your online dating purposes.  Just remember to check it periodically!

•    Remember to “test” your headline every 5-7 days unless you are getting good results.  Chances are that you won’t get it right on the first try, so relax, change your headline, and try again.

•    Never bother any particular woman, even if her picture shows her to be your ideal “fantasy woman.”  If she is not interested then leave her alone and move on.  The dating websites have policies and technology in place to ban you; and their number one safety concern is to protect the women on the website.  This is a good thing, and remember to ALWAYS be a gentleman when online.  If you continue to bother ANY woman online (or in the real world) then you deserve to be with someone with huge muscles for a long time… in prison.  Got it?!?

•    If your headline is getting you lots of “views” but not much in the way of replies, then test out different versions of your introductory paragraph, guarantee, and call to action.

•    Remember to treat online dating like a “simulator.”  You want to test out what works so that you find common themes among the women.  That way when you meet an actual muscular woman in the real world, you will have good odds of knowing what will work and what doesn’t work. 

•    If you happen to meet a beautiful woman from an online dating site then that is wonderful!  Enjoy her for who she is, not the muscles she has, and consistently ensure that you are in command of yourself, worthy of her respect, and always improving yourself to be a better man.

•    Remember to use proper spelling and grammar!  Nothing screams “idiot” like:  “i want 2 meat u l8r this weak.”  Got it?!?


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