This is an old clip with a well-known TV show host interviewing some of the more recognized names in female bodybuilding:
Even though this clip is not about dating female bodybuilders, at least you can get some idea of how the women think regarding their sport. From there you can differentiate yourself by being aware of their aspirations and limitations and working within their frameworks; or you can help them find new avenues to grow while still staying within their universes of possibility.
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